Category Archives: Infedelity

Who needs relationships? Can’t we just have sex?

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So, who ever decided that exclusive relationships between two people was the only way to go? I mean, cheating would be eliminated completely if we could just be with who we want to be with whenever we wanted to be with them, right? Why dedicate years of your life to just one person? Just spend some quality time together and then move on.

Sexual urges are natural and can happen at any time whenever two people experience things together. Different situations can bring people closer, like a work assignment, an accident – any number of things. If you’re dedicated to one person, you have to somehow pretend you’re not human with natural urges. How do you do that?? Slip-ups happen all the time.

OK, so I’m a married woman myself. I enjoyed a wild single life and I didn’t even think about marriage until I met my husband. I guess it’s just what you eventually do. You find someone that you think you can live with for the rest of your life. And I think that I can do that with my husband. But sometimes the thoughts are there. Not thoughts of cheating, but thoughts of why do I do things differently out of consideration of being a married woman.

I miss a lot of simple things, like being able to read a book in peace. I wish I could just eat a quick snack, but instead cook up a meal for the two of us. I want to go on a diet, but then I’d have to cook separate meals or tell him to fend for himself, and that’s not right.

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And then there’s the sex. To be honest, I wish we were having more. Much more. Our married sex has gotten down to maybe only once or twice a month, seriously. He can’t perform as well as he used to, and I don’t like to force him, so….. So, yeah, that’s why I find myself coming back to these ponderings.

 

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Crazy For “That” Feeling

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Has anyone else ever wondered why people go so crazy over ‘that’ feeling? Okay, I’ll be blunt: an orgasm.

It’s a feeling we can give to ourselves, for cryin’ out loud! So why are so many crimes committed, just to have someone else give you one? Why are marriages destroyed over someone going to someone else to give them ‘that’ feeling, when they can get it at home, either by themselves or with their partners?

What is it about an orgasm that drives people insane? Some brood thoughts about it in their minds that make them go out and rape, sometimes murder, for it. You have to wonder why they don’t think of the outcome, or why it doesn’t matter to them.

A scorned mate can be so hurt over it that they do insane things that they wouldn’t normally do.¬†Yet, the partners¬†who commit these acts don’t see it as a crime. They often see it as ‘casual’ sex, until it develops into something more. They don’t even take into consideration the pain that they might potentially cause. Not to mention the fighting and destruction of a relationship. Is it really worth it? Yet, in the heat of the moment and the desire to have ‘that’ feeling of release, nothing else matters.

Is it any wonder that sex sells? It’s on everyone’s minds, whether positively or negatively.167538_1776862908949_6125843_n